Scissors

When we moved to Clearfield, Utah; we were a growing young family. Reed had just joined our little troupe and we older boys were delighted to experience this delightful, innocent presence amongst us. I’m confident he didn’t experience a great deal of boredom during his younger years. Not with four active big brothers involved in the many things they were. If nothing else, he’d have been entertained by watching the many shenanigans his elder brothers brought to the fray we all called family.  Likewise, I suspect Reed seldom had a great deal of time just to himself; inasmuch as he had the teasing, playing and just general rambunctiousness to endure from four older brothers. Unfortunately (and fortunately) Reed’s life would sometimes be overwhelmed (and enhanced) by the natural activity of four energetic older brothers.

Of particular note is an experience that took place one day between Reed and Mom. As a well kempt younger woman, mom would occasionally take it upon herself to trim her nails. We boys seldom took notice of such things. We were too busy with our own lively purposes. Rather, we just enjoyed the result of well-trimmed, feminine nails that our mother adorned. On the average day of note, my mother was engaged in trimming her nails in a quiet corner of the house where she’d be able to achieve seldom available ‘me time’. As she was thus engaged; little Reed approached innocently to ascertain and observed the behavior of his mother. Mom, accustomed to being surrounded by the prying eyes of sons, kept her focus on her fingernails as Reed curiously watched her seemingly bizarre behavior.

Upon completing her process with her own fingernails, she naturally took the opportunity to examine little Reed’s nails and trim them where necessary. Reaching out, she grasped her young toddler’s hands in order to draw them near for close inspection. Undoubtedly, Reed (having just watched his mother cut parts of her own hand away) was somewhat reticent to having his own beloved hands subjected to such barbaric behavior. Though trusting his mother; Reed may have wondered if he wanted such violent application to his own precious fingers. Thus, mom was wrestling with her young offspring to save him from inadvertently scratching himself with his own nails. Insufficiently aware of his mother’s intent to care for her young toddler, Reed was less than fully cooperative as his mother positioned the manicure scissors to trim the youngster’s nails. Though uncertain, Reed may have been terrified at the seemingly loss of finger parts to a bizarre ritual he’d just observed. We may never know.

Years later, Mom again reminded me of this event and expressed heartfelt remorse at its occurrence. It would signify the great love my mother had for all of her children!

Thanks Mom!

Mom was using the curved manicure scissors she’d normally used; and was naturally using them to trim Reed’s nails. As Reed squirmed and wrestled to free his hands; mom, growing impatient, reached out with the curved scissors and ‘snipped’ at Reed as if to convey ‘be still, while I do this’. Unfortunately, as luck would have it, that little ‘snip’ caught a part of the fleshy part of Reed’s little finger and cut a small part of it completely off. Shocked that his trusted mother would perform such a barbaric thing, Reed was undoubtedly terrified. Mom, of course, was mortified at such an occurrence and rushed to care for her young baby’s finger. Both participants in this unfortunate experience were horrified. Reed’s eyes must’ve teared and penetrated his mother’s heart as he interpreted the event as a betrayal of innocently entrusting his precious fingers. Mom’s heart must’ve broken as she observed the penetrating, tearful eyes of her toddler as he questioned her action. There they were; a mother endeavoring to care for her child; and the child endeavoring to protect his body from a foreign process. A most unfortunate circumstance. Mom gathered her precious child into her arms; cuddling him, she soothed his soul and bandaged his finger. Each would find forgiveness in the other.

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